Tag: #dating

DATE NIGHT: THE NEW ERA OF DATING

“Whose in charge of what?” boy the times have changed In today’s society the landscape of dating sure has taken a turn. It’s a far cry from what dating was like in our parents or even grandparents generation. You had a courting process that… Continue Reading “DATE NIGHT: THE NEW ERA OF DATING”

CHIVALRY DIED, O-K: ARE MEN STILL EXPECTED TO PLAY THE ROLE

“It’s what you’re supposed to just do.” rule of engagement When it comes to men and women meeting each other in society, the initial meeting is the same as it has always been. Boy meets girl, girl says yes, then they go on the… Continue Reading “CHIVALRY DIED, O-K: ARE MEN STILL EXPECTED TO PLAY THE ROLE”

INTERRACIAL DECISION MAKING: WHY I HAVE NEVER DATED OUTSIDE MY ETHNICITY

“Such a difficult decision.” interracialĀ  Within my life, I have ever dated outside my ethnicity. Not that I don’t find anyone attractive, it’s more than just that. It’s a social aspect of living in America. Living i this country long enough, you realize there… Continue Reading “INTERRACIAL DECISION MAKING: WHY I HAVE NEVER DATED OUTSIDE MY ETHNICITY”

PLAYING FAVORITES: ARE BLACK WOMEN REALLY NOT A DATING CHOICE

“The selection process.” the dating pool In the selection process of dating for so long, there is this held belief that Black women are never the first choice for dating. Now as a man, I don’t believe in that, but let’s for a second… Continue Reading “PLAYING FAVORITES: ARE BLACK WOMEN REALLY NOT A DATING CHOICE”

BUILD WITH OR ALONE: SHOULD YOU FIND A MATE TO BUILD A LIFE OR NOT

“Building together is easier than separate.” the union When it comes to pursuing your career, you have to think about some things. One of those things is should I pursue this career alone or with someone by my side. We all would like to… Continue Reading “BUILD WITH OR ALONE: SHOULD YOU FIND A MATE TO BUILD A LIFE OR NOT”

COURTING: HOW RELATIONSHIP UNIONS HAVE CHANGED OVER TIME

“Where have we gone wrong?” dating norms In life, we all want to meet that right person. But in a society where so much has changed, how do you go about meeting that right one? Because dating is not what it used to be… Continue Reading “COURTING: HOW RELATIONSHIP UNIONS HAVE CHANGED OVER TIME”

BLENDED FAMILIES: HOW THE FACE OF FAMILY HAS CHANGED

“We are one.” the blend What is a blended family? A blended family is a married couple or dating couple that brings together the two sides of a family that was in progress before meeting the other person. And that has always involved the… Continue Reading “BLENDED FAMILIES: HOW THE FACE OF FAMILY HAS CHANGED”

IMPERSONAL DATING: WHY AMERICA HAS CHANGED SO MUCH IN THE DATING WORLD

“We have voices for a reason.” human connections As human beings we have built not only civilizations, we have built human connections throughout history. But in recent history we have lost an aspect of that human connection. And one of those areas has to… Continue Reading “IMPERSONAL DATING: WHY AMERICA HAS CHANGED SO MUCH IN THE DATING WORLD”

APPROPRIATE DATING AGE: WHEN YOUTH IS ON TRIAL BASED ON THE GENDER OF THE ELDER

“Is age really only a number?” The above photo is a picture I found on the internet that shows what appears to be a much older woman hugged up with a younger man. And it has popped up on dating sites as well. So… Continue Reading “APPROPRIATE DATING AGE: WHEN YOUTH IS ON TRIAL BASED ON THE GENDER OF THE ELDER”

LET ME UPGRADE YOU: WHAT IS DATING UP TO YOU

“Come talk to me when you’re on my level.” In an American society where commerce dictates so much of how we live and how we behave, how does this commerce relationship we have in this country effect our dating lives? For men, you know… Continue Reading “LET ME UPGRADE YOU: WHAT IS DATING UP TO YOU”