Tag: #spouse

MARRIAGE AND A BABY WHAT: THE DECLINE OF THE NUPTIALS

  “I do(n’t).” generational shift Unlike the past generations, more and more young people are rethinking marriage. And the reason for such a cultural shift has a lot to with divorce. We watched the past generations going in and out of marriage with costly… Continue Reading “MARRIAGE AND A BABY WHAT: THE DECLINE OF THE NUPTIALS”

BLENDED FAMILIES: HOW THE FACE OF FAMILY HAS CHANGED

“We are one.” the blend What is a blended family? A blended family is a married couple or dating couple that brings together the two sides of a family that was in progress before meeting the other person. And that has always involved the… Continue Reading “BLENDED FAMILIES: HOW THE FACE OF FAMILY HAS CHANGED”

IMPERSONAL DATING: WHY AMERICA HAS CHANGED SO MUCH IN THE DATING WORLD

“We have voices for a reason.” human connections As human beings we have built not only civilizations, we have built human connections throughout history. But in recent history we have lost an aspect of that human connection. And one of those areas has to… Continue Reading “IMPERSONAL DATING: WHY AMERICA HAS CHANGED SO MUCH IN THE DATING WORLD”

APPROPRIATE DATING AGE: WHEN YOUTH IS ON TRIAL BASED ON THE GENDER OF THE ELDER

“Is age really only a number?” The above photo is a picture I found on the internet that shows what appears to be a much older woman hugged up with a younger man. And it has popped up on dating sites as well. So… Continue Reading “APPROPRIATE DATING AGE: WHEN YOUTH IS ON TRIAL BASED ON THE GENDER OF THE ELDER”

FED UP: WHY BLACK WOMEN HAVE CHOSEN TO BE WITH NON BLACK MEN

“Slim options, forced to keep an open mind.” Over the recent years, interracial dating and marriage have climbed in the African American community. And for the longest it was the men who were opting to date outside our ethnicity, but now it’s more women.… Continue Reading “FED UP: WHY BLACK WOMEN HAVE CHOSEN TO BE WITH NON BLACK MEN”

ANIMAL TRAINING: WHEN TRYING TO HAVE AN UPPER HAND ON A SIGNIFICANT OTHER HURTS YOU

“Whose really in control in the end?” Ever hear women talk about how they have their man animal trained? How when you meet a man you have to train him how to behave how you want him to behave. But there lies a problem… Continue Reading “ANIMAL TRAINING: WHEN TRYING TO HAVE AN UPPER HAND ON A SIGNIFICANT OTHER HURTS YOU”

NOT WORTH THE TROUBLE: WHY I DON’T WANT KIDS

“Saving myself from what could be a disaster.” Since becoming an adult I have been pondering over the idea of whether I want to become a parent someday or not. And as time progress, I know I don’t want to get married. But what… Continue Reading “NOT WORTH THE TROUBLE: WHY I DON’T WANT KIDS”

FREE LOVE: HOW WOMEN’S RATIONALIZATION FOR MONOGAMY CAN HURT THEM

“You’re not worth it, yet I’ll still engage.” When observing women in relationships, I have taken notice to certain ways in which women have communicated the men they choose. And I have to say at times, when I hear the logic for why women… Continue Reading “FREE LOVE: HOW WOMEN’S RATIONALIZATION FOR MONOGAMY CAN HURT THEM”

DATING ALLEGATIONS: WOULD YOU TELL SOMEONE CLOSE TO YOU ABOUT A CHEATING PARTNER

“To talk or not to talk.” Having a friend in a relationship can be a new adjustment if you guys have both been single for so long. Now this new person comes in the mix and everything is different. But that is not the… Continue Reading “DATING ALLEGATIONS: WOULD YOU TELL SOMEONE CLOSE TO YOU ABOUT A CHEATING PARTNER”

CHOOSING A GAZELLE OVER A LION: WHY WOMEN CHOOSE WHAT’S NOT NATURAL

“You want nice, oh I bet you do.” When it comes to a relationship, women always state how much they want a nice guy. Yet they never quite choose that guy. And I have always looked at this from a nature driven standpoint. Where… Continue Reading “CHOOSING A GAZELLE OVER A LION: WHY WOMEN CHOOSE WHAT’S NOT NATURAL”