LET ME UPGRADE YOU: WHAT IS DATING UP TO YOU

“Come talk to me when you’re on my level.” In an American society where commerce dictates so much of how we live and how we behave, how does this commerce … Continue reading LET ME UPGRADE YOU: WHAT IS DATING UP TO YOU

THE RELATIONSHIP TAGLINE: HOW WE AS MEN HAVE SHIFTED OUR LANGUAGE TO APPEASE WOMEN

“We say it, but do we feel it?” “I want a woman with her own money, and dreams, and everything else she wants that society says I should want from … Continue reading THE RELATIONSHIP TAGLINE: HOW WE AS MEN HAVE SHIFTED OUR LANGUAGE TO APPEASE WOMEN

FEMININE PLIGHT: WHY IT’S HARDER FOR WOMEN TO FIND MARRIAGE THAN ME

“They need more than we do.” When seeking out a potential mate in a relationship, I am quite lucky to be a guy in society. As a man with two … Continue reading FEMININE PLIGHT: WHY IT’S HARDER FOR WOMEN TO FIND MARRIAGE THAN ME

BLACK EXPECTATIONS: HOW LOW STANDARDS FOR BLACK MEN HAVE MADE ME PUSH BACK HARD

“You’re supposed to fail!” As a Black male in society, I have noticed something since I was a young boy. And that is that we are not only expected to … Continue reading BLACK EXPECTATIONS: HOW LOW STANDARDS FOR BLACK MEN HAVE MADE ME PUSH BACK HARD

LEVELS: WHAT IS THE REAL MEANING OF A LEAGUE IN DATING

“Is your league a real league?” When you’re young, you ever hear someone say that you should date in your league? But once you start to get older, you realize … Continue reading LEVELS: WHAT IS THE REAL MEANING OF A LEAGUE IN DATING

SELECTIVE ACCOUNTABILITY: HOW WE TRANSFER RESPONSIBILITY TO SOME AND NOT OTHERS

“I did that and assume responsibility.” Ever watch television and you hear newscasters saying how much people in the public eye need to be held accountable. And what’s funny about them … Continue reading SELECTIVE ACCOUNTABILITY: HOW WE TRANSFER RESPONSIBILITY TO SOME AND NOT OTHERS

THE KNOW: HOW POVERTY IS MORE OF A MIND FRAME THAN MONEY

“Getting out, does not guarantee you’ll stay out.” As a young man, I grew up under the poverty level here in the United States. Now, if you would have told … Continue reading THE KNOW: HOW POVERTY IS MORE OF A MIND FRAME THAN MONEY

FORCED FEELINGS: WHY WE GIVE PEOPLE WHAT THEY SHOULD ALREADY KNOW

“What is meant to be, is meant to be.” When looking for a relationship, we all have our negotiables, and I our non-negotiables. The actions in the relationship that we … Continue reading FORCED FEELINGS: WHY WE GIVE PEOPLE WHAT THEY SHOULD ALREADY KNOW

FRIENEMIES OF AMERICA: WHEN YOUR ALLIES MIGHT ALSO YOUR ENEMIES

“Ever get the feeling they hate as well?” The United States have always been a place of constant conflict. No matter if it were related to ethnicity, religion, or gender. We … Continue reading FRIENEMIES OF AMERICA: WHEN YOUR ALLIES MIGHT ALSO YOUR ENEMIES

NO POINT TO PROVE: HOW HAVING SOMETHING TO LOSE IS BASED ON SOMETHING TO LOSE

“Don’t feel you have to prove yourself to nobody’s.” Having something to lose is really important in our society. Not just in our society today, in the past and in the … Continue reading NO POINT TO PROVE: HOW HAVING SOMETHING TO LOSE IS BASED ON SOMETHING TO LOSE

MOVING FORWARD: THE FUTURE OF AMERICA

“Where are we going to go from here?” Since Donald Trump walked into the White House, his supporters have all been waiting to see what decision he will make regarding … Continue reading MOVING FORWARD: THE FUTURE OF AMERICA

MY MONEY, MY RULES: HOW PARENTS USE FINANCES TO DICTATE THEIR CHILDREN’S FUTURE

“Are you a hostage to your parent’s wallet?” Do you or someone you know have a parent that have told them that if you don’t pursue the career endeavor I want, you … Continue reading MY MONEY, MY RULES: HOW PARENTS USE FINANCES TO DICTATE THEIR CHILDREN’S FUTURE