Tag: #men

SCIENCE OF PARENTING: WHAT MAKES WOMEN CLOSER THAN MEN

“We are not like them.” the job aint easy You ever hear people say that the job of raising children is not an easy? Well, it is; I don’t have any, but observing my mother raising children, I can tell it was a struggle.… Continue Reading “SCIENCE OF PARENTING: WHAT MAKES WOMEN CLOSER THAN MEN”

LET ME UPGRADE YOU: WHAT IS DATING UP TO YOU

“Come talk to me when you’re on my level.” In an American society where commerce dictates so much of how we live and how we behave, how does this commerce relationship we have in this country effect our dating lives? For men, you know… Continue Reading “LET ME UPGRADE YOU: WHAT IS DATING UP TO YOU”

GENDER FRIENDSHIPS: CAN MEN AND WOMEN REALLY JUST BE FRIENDS

“Friendzone is a hard zone.” I was contributing to a discussion on a Facebook page of a woman I know who was having a hard time regarding finding male friends. And she was saying how it’s hard to have male friends because there is… Continue Reading “GENDER FRIENDSHIPS: CAN MEN AND WOMEN REALLY JUST BE FRIENDS”

ANIMAL TRAINING: WHEN TRYING TO HAVE AN UPPER HAND ON A SIGNIFICANT OTHER HURTS YOU

“Whose really in control in the end?” Ever hear women talk about how they have their man animal trained? How when you meet a man you have to train him how to behave how you want him to behave. But there lies a problem… Continue Reading “ANIMAL TRAINING: WHEN TRYING TO HAVE AN UPPER HAND ON A SIGNIFICANT OTHER HURTS YOU”

SWITCHING UP THE CONTRACT: WHY THE BEGINNING IS NEVER THE REAL DEAL

“Signed and sealed.” Ever get the feeling that you signed up for a relationship that is not winding-up like you thought it would pan out. You met this person one way and they switched up on you the moment the relationship started. When you… Continue Reading “SWITCHING UP THE CONTRACT: WHY THE BEGINNING IS NEVER THE REAL DEAL”

PLAYING GAMES ONLY YOU CAN LOSE: WHY WOMEN IN PLAYER WORLD GETS HURT IN THE END

“Two can’t play the game.” In the world of dating, both men and women tend to play games. But there is a catch when it comes to the world of playing games. And that is that only one person winds-up getting hurt. And usually… Continue Reading “PLAYING GAMES ONLY YOU CAN LOSE: WHY WOMEN IN PLAYER WORLD GETS HURT IN THE END”

BRINGING YOU TO THE EDGE: WHY AS MEN WE MUST CHECK OURSELVES

“Don’t let her make you just as emotional.” ¬†When we get in arguments as men, we tend to get to the same level of anger as the woman in the argument and it boils over. You are being pulled into this person emotionally, and… Continue Reading “BRINGING YOU TO THE EDGE: WHY AS MEN WE MUST CHECK OURSELVES”

LEVELS: WHAT IS THE REAL MEANING OF A LEAGUE IN DATING

“Is your league a real league?” When you’re young, you ever hear someone say that you should date in your league? But once you start to get older, you realize that a lot of the leagues you thought were real leagues are not leagues… Continue Reading “LEVELS: WHAT IS THE REAL MEANING OF A LEAGUE IN DATING”

CHOOSING A GAZELLE OVER A LION: WHY WOMEN CHOOSE WHAT’S NOT NATURAL

“You want nice, oh I bet you do.” When it comes to a relationship, women always state how much they want a nice guy. Yet they never quite choose that guy. And I have always looked at this from a nature driven standpoint. Where… Continue Reading “CHOOSING A GAZELLE OVER A LION: WHY WOMEN CHOOSE WHAT’S NOT NATURAL”

MANSPECTATIONS: WHAT BEING US IN SOCIETY REALLY MEANS

“Being us means a lot of work.” Be courteous, open car doors, pull out the chair, hold the umbrella when it’s raining. Basic expectations from women to men in society when dating us. But does the job of being a man ever get to… Continue Reading “MANSPECTATIONS: WHAT BEING US IN SOCIETY REALLY MEANS”