LOVE OR SOMETHING KIND OF LIKE IT: THE BUSINESS THAT IS MARRIAGE

“Forever, not quite.” what is love What is the definition of love? Love is a deep affection or an intense feeling of pleasure one feels from another or people. So … Continue reading LOVE OR SOMETHING KIND OF LIKE IT: THE BUSINESS THAT IS MARRIAGE

BLENDED FAMILIES: HOW THE FACE OF FAMILY HAS CHANGED

“We are one.” the blend What is a blended family? A blended family is a married couple or dating couple that brings together the two sides of a family that … Continue reading BLENDED FAMILIES: HOW THE FACE OF FAMILY HAS CHANGED

LOVE COMES FROM SOMEWHERE: WHY DO HUMANS LOVE

“We got it; who put it there?” WHAT IS IT? What is love? Love is defined as a deep feeling of intense affection for someone, something, or some place. It … Continue reading LOVE COMES FROM SOMEWHERE: WHY DO HUMANS LOVE

KWANZAA: DAY 1, UMOJA

“Community involvement.” Yesterday was day one of the celebration Kwanzaa. Day one focuses on Umoja, which is┬áthe community, familial, and ethnic unity. For those of you that don’t know what … Continue reading KWANZAA: DAY 1, UMOJA

MERRY XMAS: WHAT DOES TODAY MEAN TO YOU

  “Seasons Greetings.” Today is Christmas, which is arguably the biggest holiday in America. A day where families across the country sit in their living rooms and open gifts. In … Continue reading MERRY XMAS: WHAT DOES TODAY MEAN TO YOU

GENDER FRIENDSHIPS: CAN MEN AND WOMEN REALLY JUST BE FRIENDS

“Friendzone is a hard zone.” I was contributing to a discussion on a Facebook page of a woman I know who was having a hard time regarding finding male friends. … Continue reading GENDER FRIENDSHIPS: CAN MEN AND WOMEN REALLY JUST BE FRIENDS

LAWS OF ATTRACTION: WHY GOOD LOOKING IS MORE THAN LOOKING GOOD

“You can’t help who you like.” The laws of attraction are an aspect of our daily lives that is kind of hard to explain. I have had to deal with … Continue reading LAWS OF ATTRACTION: WHY GOOD LOOKING IS MORE THAN LOOKING GOOD

LIFE ON HOLD: HAVE YOU HAD TO HOLD OFF ON YOUR DREAMS TO CARE FOR OTHERS

“They had to come first.” As a child to a single mother, I would always hear how she wanted to do so much in her life. But having children at … Continue reading LIFE ON HOLD: HAVE YOU HAD TO HOLD OFF ON YOUR DREAMS TO CARE FOR OTHERS

FREE LOVE: HOW WOMEN’S RATIONALIZATION FOR MONOGAMY CAN HURT THEM

“You’re not worth it, yet I’ll still engage.” When observing women in relationships, I have taken notice to certain ways in which women have communicated the men they choose. And … Continue reading FREE LOVE: HOW WOMEN’S RATIONALIZATION FOR MONOGAMY CAN HURT THEM

CHOOSING A GAZELLE OVER A LION: WHY WOMEN CHOOSE WHAT’S NOT NATURAL

“You want nice, oh I bet you do.” When it comes to a relationship, women always state how much they want a nice guy. Yet they never quite choose that … Continue reading CHOOSING A GAZELLE OVER A LION: WHY WOMEN CHOOSE WHAT’S NOT NATURAL

FORCED FEELINGS: WHY WE GIVE PEOPLE WHAT THEY SHOULD ALREADY KNOW

“What is meant to be, is meant to be.” When looking for a relationship, we all have our negotiables, and I our non-negotiables. The actions in the relationship that we … Continue reading FORCED FEELINGS: WHY WE GIVE PEOPLE WHAT THEY SHOULD ALREADY KNOW