INDEPENDENT DOWNSIDES DURING HARD TIME

“Moving forward.”


WHEN ROUGH GETS ROUGHER

Ever been in a position where you have to choose between being totally independent or needing someone’s aid? How about being on your own and getting hit by hard times and being in a place where you can’t easily bounce back. And here is when you realize that you may have been better off in a relationship. This way you can split the cost of survival with someone. When you are independent you take on all the burden. It sounds good to be on your own but when you see the hit on your existence you start thinking. And no other time is this true than now. We are dealing with a pandemic that has shut down the system. So where do you turn?

QUARANTINE GIVES TIME TO THINK

When you are out of work especially now, you are forced to sit with your own thoughts. And if you are single with no kids then you have to sit at home with limited resources. Limitations you wouldn’t have with someone else. Because with someone else you split the difference.  It’s what makes a person at ease a little more when they are able to receive help from someone close. But for a person like me, my life is all too unpredictable. I could be with or without in an instant. So why do we pump up independence? Because you get further with more help. It’s because we think it makes us stronger by building alone.

BUILD A BASE

Learn to put people around you that are going in your direction. This will help you in your time of need.  Being alone especially in a quarantined like situation is not good. I live alone in a city but I get help in bad times. Yet so many don’t get anything.


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WHEN IT ALL COMES CRASHING DOWN

Brown Cardboard Box on Floor

“When the machine breaks.”


WHEN IT’S GONE

We all dread the idea that we could lose our jobs. And considering most people live for their checks, you can understand the fear of those who do. Now, if you’re one of those blessed people who just happen to earn a little money to get you over, then count your lucky stars. But for most people, they need their job to survive. We never think to ourselves that we could lose our jobs. We go there everyday, with this idea that it could never be me. That is until your name is called. And the scary part about it, is that we have no way of stopping it. But how do you prepare for a situation that may never happen to you?

SAVE SAVE SAVE

You get your check and pay your bills, then you go out to eat or shopping. And you don’t realize throughout the year how much money you spend on miscellaneous items. And we don’t put much in savings. That is until the job is gone and now we are scrambling for ways to live. The average American only has enough money in their savings account to hold them over for a few weeks in case they lose their jobs. After that, most people are forced to sleep in the street. But is having a savings something you can truly dig in to when you need it? Are you really secure when you feel you’re secure? What if you’re unemployed for 6 months to a year? That is a stretch to be able to save for in the case you lose your job. And to build capital for the ability to live that long is not as easy as it seems.

A LITTLE SOMETHING ON THE SIDE

If you can find a way to make an additional $200, $300, or even $400 per week, it really helps. Now, how you’re going to do that is the hard part. But in our everyday lives, waste a lot of time doing nothing. With that nothing we can figure out how to make money doing something we enjoy. No amount of money is too small. It seems small in the paradigm of building it, but if something bad happens, you’ll be surprised what it can do for your life. Just keep in mind when you go to work, nothing, absolutely nothing is guaranteed. Never get too comfortable in this ever changing environment.


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HITTING A WALL: WHAT TO DO WHEN YOU RUN OUT OF ABILITY

Brown Brick Wall

“Can’t think huh?”


i can’t go anywhere

Whenever you’re working within your career or on a career interest, you may find yourself stuck in a rut. And that is when you hit a wall and it becomes difficult to get yourself out. You try to do anything you can to get yourself out of this funk, but you can’t. And if you have never been in this place, it will test your will power. Me, I am working on screenwriting, my books, and photography, so I am always in this place of trying to come up with something new. And when I do it’s great, when I can’t things start to get a little rocky mentally.

in a dark place

When you can’t move past the point you are at in your career, you start to get these thoughts in your mind. These thoughts that range from I hate my life, to why am I still here on Earth. And this is that creepy place you don’t want to be. Because if you don’t remove yourself from this area mentally, you will find yourself slipping even further down from where you are at now. So what you must do is keep yourself distracted with something, even if it’s not your career sometimes. Yes, that won’t help you get out of the funk you are in, but it is a momentary thing until you can remove yourself into a better mental state.

knowing your path

Knowing your projected path in life is crucial in getting yourself out of this mental state. When you know how far you want to go and it’s crystal clear then you can remove yourself from the down point to a much better place in life. Now, that doesn’t mean you will never be back in that place again, but it means when you know your path to a degree you can remove yourself quicker the next time you reach that point of the funk again.


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