LEVELS: WHAT IS THE REAL MEANING OF A LEAGUE IN DATING

“Is your league a real league?” When you’re young, you ever hear someone say that you should date in your league? But once you start to get older, you realize … Continue reading LEVELS: WHAT IS THE REAL MEANING OF A LEAGUE IN DATING

SELFISH ME: WHY YOU SHOULD BE A DICTATOR WITH YOUR LOVE

“Only to those who deserve it.” In life, when dealing with people no matter what the relationship capacity, you must be a dictator with your love. And what do I … Continue reading SELFISH ME: WHY YOU SHOULD BE A DICTATOR WITH YOUR LOVE

DO BETTER; BETTER THAN WHAT: DON’T LET YOUR GOAL BE SOMEONE ELSE’S DREAM FOR YOU

“Build yours or someone else’s.” We all have these visions of the life we want. And for a lot of people, the dream is real. But what happens when you … Continue reading DO BETTER; BETTER THAN WHAT: DON’T LET YOUR GOAL BE SOMEONE ELSE’S DREAM FOR YOU

LIFE ON HOLD: HAVE YOU HAD TO HOLD OFF ON YOUR DREAMS TO CARE FOR OTHERS

“They had to come first.” As a child to a single mother, I would always hear how she wanted to do so much in her life. But having children at … Continue reading LIFE ON HOLD: HAVE YOU HAD TO HOLD OFF ON YOUR DREAMS TO CARE FOR OTHERS

LIVING UP TO EXPECTATIONS: SHOULD I LISTEN TO OTHERS OR FOLLOW THE BEAT OF MY OWN DRUM

“Stuck between what they think and how I think.” Trying to please other people or live by how they view you is a struggle that most of us deal with … Continue reading LIVING UP TO EXPECTATIONS: SHOULD I LISTEN TO OTHERS OR FOLLOW THE BEAT OF MY OWN DRUM

NEWBO: IS THERE TIME FOR A CULTURE SHIFT

“We carved one out before, why not again?” In the 1610’s, the African American population was forced to the United States as indentured servants. Later becoming slaves, losing names, religions, … Continue reading NEWBO: IS THERE TIME FOR A CULTURE SHIFT

CELEBRATED NOT TOLERATED: WHY BE SOMEWHERE YOU’RE NOT WANTED

“I wouldn’t want to belong, unless I belong.” I was recently reading a story regarding Hollywood actress Gabrielle Sidibe’s visit to the high-end Chanel retail store. While in the store, … Continue reading CELEBRATED NOT TOLERATED: WHY BE SOMEWHERE YOU’RE NOT WANTED

MAKING MOVES OR IS IT YOU: HOW CHANGING YOU MIGHT BE THE REAL MOVE TO MAKE

“What are you really running from in life?” For me, growing up in a small city my entire life, I decided to move to the big city for graduate school. … Continue reading MAKING MOVES OR IS IT YOU: HOW CHANGING YOU MIGHT BE THE REAL MOVE TO MAKE

Up All Night: Why We Waste Our 20’s

“What have you done with your 20’s?” We Are Young is such a great song by the group FUN. It has so many meanings, but one sticks out to me. … Continue reading Up All Night: Why We Waste Our 20’s

SOFTIES & SUCKAS: What Has Become Of Men

I was reading on a female’s timeline via Facebook. She put up a posting that talked about how she was disgusted to see a woman pushing her stroller while the … Continue reading SOFTIES & SUCKAS: What Has Become Of Men